घुमट

माणसं भेटतात, प्रसंग आठवतात.
मनात भावनांची गर्दी झाली की शब्द अबोल होतात,
बुद्धी परकी होते, फक्त आपल्यासाठी का होईना काळाचं चक्र थांबतं.

खूप काही बोलायचं असतं, पण नेमक्या शब्दात मांडणं कठीण होऊन जातं.
काय सांगावं, कसं सांगावं, काय आधी सांगावं, सांगितलंच पाहिजे का?
हे विचार करता करता सगळंच सांगायचं राहतं.

युद्धभूमीवर सामान्य सैन्य पुढे करून राजाने मागून सगळं रणांगण पहावं तसं
शब्दांच्या गिचमिडीत नेमके हवे तेच शब्द मागे राहतात.
मग जाणवतं की,
जे शब्द ओठातून निसटतात, ते अगदी शुल्लक असतात.
जे लपून राहतात, ते खरे योद्धे असतात. त्यांनी लढायला हवं होतं.

घुमटामध्ये आवाज घुमतो, प्रतिध्वनी ऐकू येतो. पण....
घुमट समजून खुल्या आभाळाखाली जोरात किंकाळी मारून प्रतिध्वनीची वाट पाहण्यात काही अर्थ नसतो,
आपलाच आवाज आपल्याला परत ऐकू येत नाही.
येईलच कसा ?
परत यायला आवाजही आभाळाच्या संपण्याची वाट पाहत धावत असतो पण आभाळ संपतच नाही.
आभाळ हि अनंताकडे स्वतःचा अंत मागत असतं.
आवाज काही परत येत नाही आणि वाट पाहणाऱ्याची वाट पाहणं हि संपत नाही.
मग एकटेपणाशी भेट होते.

"वर्तमानात आवडत्या माणसाला वेळ नाही दिला कि,भविष्यातला बराचसा वेळ एकटेपणाला द्यावा लागतो.".......
so keep humanrelation.......……. शेवटी माणसेच असतात......

10 money lessons from billionaires

"You become what you believe. You are where you are today in your life based on everything you have believed." --Oprah Winfrey, net worth of $2.7 billion First and foremost, you have to believe that greatness is possible. Many of the world's billionaires have shifted the way our world works, because they believed that they were capable of doing something that was previously impossible. Change is possible. Greatness is possible. But you can't do anything unless you first believe in yourself.

"What we say here every day is that our success is really based on our members' success, our community's success." --Pierre Omidyar, net worth of $6.7 billion Your success is directly tied to how much you do for others. It's not what you know. It's not who you know. It's what you do for who you know. Success follows generosity

"The typical human life seems to be quite unplanned, undirected, unlived, and unsavored. Only those who consciously think about the adventure of living as a matter of making choices among options, which they have found for themselves, ever establish real self-control and live their lives fully." --Karl Albrecht, net worth of $25.4 billion Everything you do (or choose not to do) is a choice. Most of us think that life happens to us, but in reality life is something that we choose either by actively pursuing options and creating our own circumstances, or by blocking opportunities and limiting our beliefs of what is possible. You can choose the type of life you want to live.

“I think that our fundamental belief is that for us growth is a way of life and we have to grow at all times.” —Mukesh Ambani, net worth of $22.3 billion Success is not an event—it’s a process. Billionaires embody that process better than most of us. They are on a constant quest to improve, enhance, and outperform themselves. It’s a constant, internal drive to become a better person.

"Getting the job done has been the basis for the success my company has achieved." --Michael Bloomberg, net worth of $22 billion Billionaires have grit and perseverance. Top performers work hard at hard things. And that means that successful people do the things that most people don't want to do, and that's why they get the job done.

"It's through curiosity and looking at opportunities in new ways that we've always mapped our path at Dell. There's always an opportunity to make a difference." --Michael Dell, net worth of $15.9 billion Take a look at any market-leading company. Are they compromising on their product in one way or another? That's an opportunity for disruption, growth, and change. Any unmet need, any annoying problem, any half-baked solution offers a chance to change things.

"If I'm going to do something, I do it spectacularly or I don't do it at all." --Prince Alwaleed Bin Talal Alsaud, net worth of $18 billion Developing a world-class skill means that you have the capability to ignore everything else. You have to be able to focus on doing an incredible job or on ignoring it completely. Greatness doesn't come from simply "putting the time in" ... you have to put the time in with effort, energy, and resolve.

"The role of business is to produce goods and services that make people's lives better." --Charles Koch, net worth of $25 billion If your only goal is to become rich, then you're going to have trouble meeting your goal. However, if your focus is on making people's lives better, then you'll find that success comes much more quickly.5. Charles G. Koch, 76 
Company: Koch Industries 
Net worth: $24.7 billion 
Compensation: N/A 

Charles G. Koch has been the chairman and CEO of Koch Industries — one of the largest privately owned companies in the U.S. — since 1967. The group’s annual revenue is more than $100 billion, according to Forbes.

"No person will make a great business who wants to do it all himself or get all the credit." --Andrew Carnegie, net worth of $298.3 billion (in 2007 dollars) Success unshared is failure. Our connections with other people are what give our work meaning. The things we do will only matter if they are shared with others.

"The ultimate definition of success is: you could lose everything that you have and truly be okay with it. Your happiness isn't based on external factors." --Tony Hsieh, net worth of $840 million So often, we push happiness out on the horizon of life. "Once I get this job, I'll be happy." Or, "If only I landed that promotion, then everything would be good." Of course, life doesn't work that way, and there is always another goal once we reach our previous idea of happiness. Money is important, but your life should never be built around it. Happiness comes before success, not after it.

moral of the story

At a restaurant, a cockroach suddenly

flew from somewhere and sat on a lady.

She started screaming out of fear. With a

panic stricken face and trembling voice,

she started jumping, with both her

hands desperately trying to get rid of

the cockroach. Her reaction was

contagious, as everyone in her group

also got panicky. The lady finally

managed to push the cockroach away

but ...it landed on another lady in the

group.

Now, it was the turn of the other lady in

the group to continue the drama.

The waiter rushed forward to their

rescue. In the relay of throwing, the

cockroach next fell upon the waiter.

The waiter stood firm, composed himself

and observed the behavior of the

cockroach on his shirt. When he was

confident enough, he grabbed it with his

fingers and threw it out of the

restaurant.

Sipping my coffee and watching the

amusement, the antenna of my mind

picked up a few thoughts and started

wondering, was the cockroach

responsible for their histrionic behavior?

If so, then why was the waiter not

disturbed? He handled it near to

perfection, without any chaos.

It is not the cockroach, but the inability

of the ladies to handle the disturbance

caused by the cockroach that disturbed

the ladies.

I realized that, it is not the shouting of

my father or my boss or my wife that

disturbs me, but it's my inability to

handle the disturbances caused by their

shouting that disturbs me.

It's not the traffic jams on the road that

disturbs me, but my inability to handle

the disturbance caused by the traffic

jam that disturbs me.

More than the problem, it's my reaction

to the problem that creates chaos in my

life.

Lessons learn t from the story:

• I understood, I should not react in life.

• I should always respond.

• The women reacted, whereas the

waiter responded.

Reactions are always instinctive whereas

responses are always well thought of,

just and right to save a situation from

going out of hands, to avoid cracks in

relationship, to avoid taking decisions in

anger, anxiety, stress or hurry.