LAGNA

I want to love you forever.

I want to love you forever.

I love the way you make me laugh,
the way you make me smile.
The way you hold me close to you,
and kiss me for awhile.

I love the way you support me,
even if you disagree.
You never turn your back on me,
You're always there for me.

I love the way you look at me,
Its makes my knees weak,
The love and the glow in your eyes,
makes it hard for me to speak.

I love the way you love how I am,
How i shouldn't lose a pound.
I'm so lucky to have you,
You're the best guy around.

I love the way your protective,
it shows me that you care.
Without you around to protect me,
Life would be unfair.

I love the way we can sit around,
and not say a thing.
We have a special bond,
who knows what the future will bring.

I love the way we are different people,
Our likes are not the same.
Some of the things I like,
You probably think is lame.

I love the way you cheer me up,
especially when I'm sad.
And even when we get in fights,
we never stay mad.

I love the way we fall asleep,
holding each other tight.
With you being apart of my life,
Everything seems so right.

I love the way you love me,
and the love that we share.
I know this love is true,
and nothing can ever compare.

I love the way we love each other,
and the time we spend together.
I never want to loose you,
I want to love you forever.

LOVE

submit to love without thinking.

LETTER FROM A NEWLY MARRIED GIRL TO HER MOTHER

Dear mom,
Like every normal girl,I was excited about marriage,right from my childhood days.I never thought beyond the time that I would spend happily with my prince charming but today when I am married I realize that marriage is not all roses. It's not just about being with your beloved and having a gala time. There is so much more to it. It comes with its own share of responsibilities, duties, sacrifices and compromise's. I can't wake up anytime I want to. I am expected to be up and ready before everyone else in the family I can't laze around in my pyjamas throught the day. I am expected to be presentable everytime. I can't just go out anytime I want to. I am expected to be sensitive to the needs of the family. I just can't hit the bed anytime i want to. I am expected to be active and around the family. I can't expect to be treated like a princess but am supposed to take care of every one else in the family. And then I think to myself "Why did I get married at all?" I was happier with you,mom. Sometimes I think of coming back to you & getting pampared again. I want to come home to my favourite food cooked by you every evening after a nice outing with friend. I want to sleep on your laps like I have no worry in this in this world.
But then I suddenly realize, had you not get married and made such sacrifices in your life, I wouldn't have had so many wonderful memories to hang on to. And suddenly, the purpose of all this become clear-to return the same comfort, peace and happiness to my new family that I got from you. And I am sure that as time would pass, I would start loving this life equally as you do.
Thank you mom for all the sacrifices and compromises you made. They give me the strength to do the same. LOVE YOU.

sis and family

I m a boy...
I taunt my sister too much...... pinch her....push her...pull her....etc etc !!
Whenever She asks me how is she
looking... I pass a weird look saying... Do i have to tell.??
She shouts at me.... Scold me....
Gets angry at tyms....
I just wanna say sry sissy....
M sry 4 alL d tyms i taunted u....
U look cute when u r angry at me....
I just do it coz i know 1 day u
gonna leave me....
N go away wid ur husband....
All d things i do is Just wanna live
some moments wid u....
I'll laugh when I'll remember these
moments... N hope u'll also....
Thank you n sorry....
Ur sweet bro...."

A girl before marriage...!!

"My man should be a
perfect guy."

"He should love me
more than I do."

"He should never make
me cry."

"He should always
understand me."

But after marriage...!!!!
"So what if he's not
perfect, he's still the
best for me."

"So what if he doesn't
love me unconditionally, I`ll love him."

"So what if he's not
understanding me, I`ll
understand him & adjust
because I cant afford to
lose him...

10 things you have to know about arranged marriages

1) Right age: Love knows no age, but in order to make a good match through arranged marriage, it is imperative to keep age consideration in mind. The preferable age for girls is around 25 or 26 and for guys no later than 30.

2) Self assessment: Take a pen and paper and list down what all things you expect in your spouse to be and what level of compatibility do you desire, that will be in tune with the compromises that will need to be made.

3) Decent Expectations: Expectations in an arranged marriage tend to run high and higher the expectations, greater are the disappointments because at the end of the day, it is not necessary that all the virtues that you desire can be found in one person.

4) Economic compatibility: Arranged marriages take everything in account and strive for utmost compatibility even in terms of economic standing of the families. In fact, in olden days it was a way of ensuring financial security for the bride.

5) Beauty: Arranged marriage is about suitability and compatibility. Beauty can easily take a back seat. Your intended need not be as dashing as Tom Cruise or as charming as Kate Winslet. Looks are important but not the most important thing.

6) Understanding: Now, this is the million dollar question: how can you understand a person in just one or two meets? At times a lifetime seems less to truly understand someone. It is here that you should share your feelings about the person with your very close friends or may be siblings.

7) Observe Etiquettes: Yes, there are some set codes of conduct that society at large expects you to follow. For example, do sufficient background research about the person before consenting to meet. Answering in negation after having met twice or thrice may be detrimental to the person’s self confidence.

8) Take Advice: Feel free to take advice from those you feel will be able to guide you in the best possible way. Do not make a show of your feelings but then do not go about it unsolicited.

9) Final Decision: Do not just marry a girl or a guy just because your parents or friends asked you to. It has to be your own decision and you will be responsible for whatever happens later in the life.

10) Commitment: Arranged marriages are based on commitment and it is the most necessary element that keeps a relationship going.

10 SIMPLE WAYS A MAN CAN KEEP HIS WOMEN HAPPY

1. Look good and smell great for your wife.
2. Be a good listener.
3. Make her feel secure, don't threaten her with divorce.
4. Express to her relatives, how wonderful she is.
5. Leave the past for Allah, don't dwell on, dig into, or bring it up.
6. Don't act as if you are doing her a favour by working or providing, Allah is the Provider, the husband is the carrier of the sustenance to the family.
7. Respect that she might not be in mood for intimacy, stay within Halaal boundaries.
8. Help her take care of the children.
9. Remember you are not always right or perfect yourself.
10. Go out on a date or a get-away for the weekend in a nice location, preferably without kids.

घुमट

माणसं भेटतात, प्रसंग आठवतात.
मनात भावनांची गर्दी झाली की शब्द अबोल होतात,
बुद्धी परकी होते, फक्त आपल्यासाठी का होईना काळाचं चक्र थांबतं.

खूप काही बोलायचं असतं, पण नेमक्या शब्दात मांडणं कठीण होऊन जातं.
काय सांगावं, कसं सांगावं, काय आधी सांगावं, सांगितलंच पाहिजे का?
हे विचार करता करता सगळंच सांगायचं राहतं.

युद्धभूमीवर सामान्य सैन्य पुढे करून राजाने मागून सगळं रणांगण पहावं तसं
शब्दांच्या गिचमिडीत नेमके हवे तेच शब्द मागे राहतात.
मग जाणवतं की,
जे शब्द ओठातून निसटतात, ते अगदी शुल्लक असतात.
जे लपून राहतात, ते खरे योद्धे असतात. त्यांनी लढायला हवं होतं.

घुमटामध्ये आवाज घुमतो, प्रतिध्वनी ऐकू येतो. पण....
घुमट समजून खुल्या आभाळाखाली जोरात किंकाळी मारून प्रतिध्वनीची वाट पाहण्यात काही अर्थ नसतो,
आपलाच आवाज आपल्याला परत ऐकू येत नाही.
येईलच कसा ?
परत यायला आवाजही आभाळाच्या संपण्याची वाट पाहत धावत असतो पण आभाळ संपतच नाही.
आभाळ हि अनंताकडे स्वतःचा अंत मागत असतं.
आवाज काही परत येत नाही आणि वाट पाहणाऱ्याची वाट पाहणं हि संपत नाही.
मग एकटेपणाशी भेट होते.

"वर्तमानात आवडत्या माणसाला वेळ नाही दिला कि,भविष्यातला बराचसा वेळ एकटेपणाला द्यावा लागतो.".......
so keep humanrelation.......……. शेवटी माणसेच असतात......