Thursday, June 27, 2013

sis and family


I m a boy...
I taunt my sister too much...... pinch her....push her...pull her....etc etc !!
Whenever She asks me how is she
looking... I pass a weird look saying... Do i have to tell.??
She shouts at me.... Scold me....
Gets angry at tyms....
I just wanna say sry sissy....
M sry 4 alL d tyms i taunted u....
U look cute when u r angry at me....
I just do it coz i know 1 day u
gonna leave me....
N go away wid ur husband....
All d things i do is Just wanna live
some moments wid u....
I'll laugh when I'll remember these
moments... N hope u'll also....
Thank you n sorry....
Ur sweet bro...."

A girl before marriage...!!



"My man should be a
perfect guy."

"He should love me
more than I do."

"He should never make
me cry."

"He should always
understand me."

But after marriage...!!!!
"So what if he's not
perfect, he's still the
best for me."

"So what if he doesn't
love me unconditionally, I`ll love him."

"So what if he's not
understanding me, I`ll
understand him & adjust
because I cant afford to
lose him...

Tuesday, June 25, 2013

Wednesday, June 19, 2013

10 things you have to know about arranged marriages

1) Right age: Love knows no age, but in order to make a good match through arranged marriage, it is imperative to keep age consideration in mind. The preferable age for girls is around 25 or 26 and for guys no later than 30.

2) Self assessment: Take a pen and paper and list down what all things you expect in your spouse to be and what level of compatibility do you desire, that will be in tune with the compromises that will need to be made.

3) Decent Expectations: Expectations in an arranged marriage tend to run high and higher the expectations, greater are the disappointments because at the end of the day, it is not necessary that all the virtues that you desire can be found in one person.

4) Economic compatibility: Arranged marriages take everything in account and strive for utmost compatibility even in terms of economic standing of the families. In fact, in olden days it was a way of ensuring financial security for the bride.

5) Beauty: Arranged marriage is about suitability and compatibility. Beauty can easily take a back seat. Your intended need not be as dashing as Tom Cruise or as charming as Kate Winslet. Looks are important but not the most important thing.

6) Understanding: Now, this is the million dollar question: how can you understand a person in just one or two meets? At times a lifetime seems less to truly understand someone. It is here that you should share your feelings about the person with your very close friends or may be siblings.

7) Observe Etiquettes: Yes, there are some set codes of conduct that society at large expects you to follow. For example, do sufficient background research about the person before consenting to meet. Answering in negation after having met twice or thrice may be detrimental to the person’s self confidence.

8) Take Advice: Feel free to take advice from those you feel will be able to guide you in the best possible way. Do not make a show of your feelings but then do not go about it unsolicited.

9) Final Decision: Do not just marry a girl or a guy just because your parents or friends asked you to. It has to be your own decision and you will be responsible for whatever happens later in the life.

10) Commitment: Arranged marriages are based on commitment and it is the most necessary element that keeps a relationship going.

Thursday, June 13, 2013

Quotations

"I didn't complete my University.."-- Bill Gates

"I Stitched Shoes in childhood.."-- Abraham Lincoln

"I was the one who served in Hotels.."Oberoi

"I was Conductor.."-- Rajnikanth

"I worked at Petrol Pump.."-- Dhirubhai Ambani

"I Failed in class 10th.."-- Sachin Tendulkar

"I was a Drop out n Keyboard Player.."--
A.R.Rahman

"I Slept on a Bench & borrowed Rs 20 everyday
from friend to travel to filmcity.."-- Shahrukh Khan

"I used to serve Tea to support my Football
Training.."-- Lionél Messi

~ Life isn't about finding yourself
Life is about creating yourself~ ..


"LANGUAGE" shows the knowledge of speaker. 

KE LOUT AAO TO ACHA HAI

Bohut Takleef Deti Hein
Teri Yadein Tere Qisse Teri Baatein

Faqat Itna Hi Kehna Hai
Ke Loat Aao To Acha Hai

MARATHI KAVITA


EFFORTS

'HALF HEARTED EFFORTS DOES NOT PRODUCE HALF RESULTS; IT PRODUCES NO RESULT'. SO LET'S ROLL UP OUR SLEEVES AND WORK TOWARDS PRODUCING EXCELLENT RESULTS...

THOUGHTS ON ATTITUDE

IT IS NOT ENOUGH TO HAVE A GOOD MIND. THE MAIN THING IS TO USE IT WELL
RENE DESCARTES.

WE ARE SHAPED AND FASHIONED BY WHAT WE LOVE.
JOHANN WOLFAGANG VON GOETHE.

WE CAN'T SOLVE PROBLEMS BY USING THE SAME KING OF THINKING WE USED WHEN WE CREATED THEM.
ALBERT EINSTEIN.


NOT EVERYTHING THAT IS FACED CAN BE CHANGED, BUT NOTHING CAN BE CHANGED UNTIL IT IS FACED!
JAMES BALDWIN.


TO BE SEVENTY YEAR YOUNG IS SOMETIMES FAR MORE CHEERFUL AND HOPEFUL THEN TO BE FORTY YEARS OLD!
OLIVER WENDELL HOLMES



Breakfast Pizza Recipe

What family doesn't love pizza? Our family also gets a kick out of having breakfast for dinner. Breakfastpizza is the perfect solution. The pizza crust is made from crescent rolls. It is topped with traditional breakfast ingredients including your choice of sausage, bacon or ham (or all three!), hash brown potatoes, and roasted red peppers. Eggs take the place of pizza sauce, and of course, it is topped with cheese. If you serve this with a generous portion of fresh fruit, you can stretch the recipe to feed 6.
Yield: 4 servings
Ingredients:
1 (8-ounce) can crescent rolls (see Notes)
1/2 pound bulk breakfast sausage, bacon, ham or a combination
1 cup shredded hash brown potatoes
4 large eggs (about 1 scant cup)
1/4 teaspoon onion powder
Salt and freshly-ground black pepper to taste
1/4 cup diced roasted red peppers
1/4 cup sliced green onions (scallions), green tops included
1 to 1-1/2 cups fine-shredded Cheddar cheese
1/4 cup grated Parmesan cheese (not the shelf-stable stuff in the can)
Preparation:
Preheat oven to 375 F. You will need a 12-inch pizza pan (larger will also work) or a heavy rimmed baking sheet at least 12 inches long and 12 inches wide.

Brown the sausage in a heavy skillet over medium heat, stirring to create large crumbles. When no pink remains, remove sausage crumbles with a slotted spoon to a bowl to cool. Drain off any excess oil. (If using, the bacon should be cooked and chopped. The ham should be cut into 1/2-inch dice.)

In the same skillet, cook the hash browns until golden brown. Let cool while you prepare the crust.

To make the crust, open the can of crescent rolls and separate the dough into triangles. Arrange the triangles in a circle with the points to the center, slightly overlapping the long edges. Use your fingertips to seal the long sides and pat into an even circular shape. Roll the outer edge up about 1/2-inch to form a rim to contain the eggs. Distribute hash browns and meat evenly over crust.

Break the eggs into a large bowl and whisk with the onion powder to combine. Pour the eggs over the potatoes and meat. Sprinkle with salt and pepper to taste.

Top with roasted red peppers and green onions over the eggs. Finish with the Cheddar and Parmesan cheeses.

Bake 20 to 25 minutes until crust is browned and eggs are set. Cut into wedges to serve.

Saturday, June 8, 2013

10 SIMPLE WAYS A MAN CAN KEEP HIS WOMEN HAPPY

1. Look good and smell great for your wife.
2. Be a good listener.
3. Make her feel secure, don't threaten her with divorce.
4. Express to her relatives, how wonderful she is.
5. Leave the past for Allah, don't dwell on, dig into, or bring it up.
6. Don't act as if you are doing her a favour by working or providing, Allah is the Provider, the husband is the carrier of the sustenance to the family.
7. Respect that she might not be in mood for intimacy, stay within Halaal boundaries.
8. Help her take care of the children.
9. Remember you are not always right or perfect yourself.
10. Go out on a date or a get-away for the weekend in a nice location, preferably without kids.

Thursday, June 6, 2013

NIKAH

Marriage season is upon us and I want to share some tips to increase the blessings in our marriages:

1- Marriage is not a competition to show off how much wealth we have. In most cases people go into serious debt getting married, and this should completely be avoided. Celebrate with in the means Allah has given you without being wasteful.

2- Your marriage should not only be a gathering for your close family members, but also for the members of the community. Do not forget to invite the elderly that frequent the Masjid, as they are the truly blessed people whose presence you would like.

3- Don't indulge in sin at your wedding. Music should be replaced with anashid. Try your best to segregate between the genders even if it means just putting them on opposite sides of the hall. The bride should not be drowning in so much make up that she is unable to make wudhu and pray. How you start of your marriage will effect how the marriage plays out.

4- Marriages are not good times to remind people about death or the hellfire. Rather any reminders that are given should be about practical advice on how to make marriages last, and a bit of humor would not hurt. There is a place and time for everything.

5- Some of the first acts that a couple should do: 1- Feed each other. 2- Pray together. 3- Supplicate for each other. 4- The left over food from the wedding share it with the poor. 5- Read Quran together. 6- Read books together, particularly about the rights and roles of the spouses, and about the psychological differences between the genders. 7- Take some time off to travel and learn about each other.

From the narrated supplications for the bride and groom: Baaraka Allahu lak, wa baaraka 'alaik, wa jam'aa baynakumaa fee khair.

May the blessings of Allah be for you, and may the blessings of Allah be upon you, and may He unite you upon goodness.

GOOD HUSBAND

दुनिया का सबसे अच्छा सोहर (Husband) कोन है ????

1. जो अपनी बीवी के साथ नरमी खुश अखलाकी और हूसने सुलूक से पेश आए...।

2. जो अपनी बीवी के हुकूक अदा करने मे किसी किस्म की गफलत और कोताही न करे..।

3. जो अपनी बीवी का इस तरह होकर रहे की किसी अजनबी औरत पर निगाह भी न डाले..।

4. जो अपनी बीवी को अपने ऐश व आराम मे बराबर का शरीक समझे...।

5. जो अपनी बीवी पर कभी ज़ुल्म और किसी क़िस्म की बेज़ा ज्यादती न करे..।

6. जो अपनी बीवी की खूबियो पर नज़र रखे और मामूली गल्तियो को नज़र अंदाज़ करे..।

7. जो अपनी बीवी की मुसीबतों,बीमारियो और रंज गम मे साथ रहकर वफादारी का सुबूत दे..।

8. जो अपनी बीवी को पर्दे मे रख कर उसकी इज्ज़त व आबरू की हिफाज़त करे..।

9. जो अपनी बीवी और बाल बच्चो को कमा कमा कर हलाल रोज़ी खिलाये..।

10. जो अपनी बीवी के माइका वालों और और उसकी सहेलियो के साथ भी अच्छा सुलूक करे..।

11. जो अपनी बीवी के खर्चो मे कंजूसी न करे...।

12. जो अपनी बीवी की तारीफ सबके सामने करे और उसकी बुराई सबसे छुपाये.....

Wednesday, June 5, 2013

KURAAN KARIM

कुरआन करीम !

* अल्लाह की जबानी
* अल्लाह की किताब

* एक हिकमत व हिदायत वाला कलाम.....
* हकीकत व सच्चाइ को साफ साफ तौर पर बताने वाली किताब

* सच व झुट में फर्क बताने वाली किताब

* शुरू से आखीर तक रोजे अव्वल से रोजे हश्र (कयामत) तक तमाम दुनीयाँ वालों के लिये एक कानुन-एक दस्तुर.........

* हर किस्मत कि बरकतों का सबब......

* रहमत व बरकत और शिफा का असर...

* उल्झनों और मुश्किलात का हल.....

* सिर्फ और सिर्फ कुरआन करिम...॥

* इस्को हमने नमाजे तरावीह में सूना...

* हर रोज लाखो करोडों ने पढा.....

* मगर क्या हमने कभी इसे समझा....

* क्या हमने इसे समझ कर पढा.....

क्या हमने समझ ने कि कोशिश कि

हमने इसे पढा और सुना तो फिर अमल किया ?

सोचीये, अब भी वक्त है !
इसे पढिये, पढाइये
मगर अमल जरूर किजीये......

क्यों के अमल से जिंदगीयाँ बनती है.....
जन्नत भी जहन्नम भी
आप को क्या चाहिये ?
जन्नत या जहन्नम
आखिर फैसला आपका ।

अल्लाह अज वो जल, अमल करने की तौफीक दे..... आमीन

Tuesday, June 4, 2013

DUA





DUA : 
Rabbana aateyna fidduniya
hashnatou wa fill aakhirate
hashnatou wakiyn aajaban naar.

Aye humare RAB hume duniya aur
aakhirat ki behtarin bhalayio se
nawaz aur azabe-dozakh se hume
bacha..... 

((Ameen))

LAB PE AATI HE DUA


एक बहुत प्यारी सी दुआ

लब[1] पे आती है दुआ[2] बनके तमन्ना मेरी
ज़िन्दगी शमअ की सूरत हो ख़ुदाया मेरी

दूर दुनिया का मेरे दम अँधेरा हो जाये
हर जगह मेरे चमकने से उजाला हो जाये

हो मेरे दम से यूँ ही मेरे वतन की ज़ीनत[3]
जिस तरह फूल से होती है चमन की ज़ीनत

ज़िन्दगी हो मेरी परवाने की सूरत या रब
इल्म[4] की शमअ से हो मुझको मोहब्बत या रब

हो मेरा काम ग़रीबों की हिमायत[5] करना
दर्द-मंदों से ज़इफ़ों[6] से मोहब्बत करना

मेरे अल्लाह बुराई से बचाना मुझको
नेक जो राह हो उस राह पे चलाना मुझको