NIKAH

Marriage season is upon us and I want to share some tips to increase the blessings in our marriages:

1- Marriage is not a competition to show off how much wealth we have. In most cases people go into serious debt getting married, and this should completely be avoided. Celebrate with in the means Allah has given you without being wasteful.

2- Your marriage should not only be a gathering for your close family members, but also for the members of the community. Do not forget to invite the elderly that frequent the Masjid, as they are the truly blessed people whose presence you would like.

3- Don't indulge in sin at your wedding. Music should be replaced with anashid. Try your best to segregate between the genders even if it means just putting them on opposite sides of the hall. The bride should not be drowning in so much make up that she is unable to make wudhu and pray. How you start of your marriage will effect how the marriage plays out.

4- Marriages are not good times to remind people about death or the hellfire. Rather any reminders that are given should be about practical advice on how to make marriages last, and a bit of humor would not hurt. There is a place and time for everything.

5- Some of the first acts that a couple should do: 1- Feed each other. 2- Pray together. 3- Supplicate for each other. 4- The left over food from the wedding share it with the poor. 5- Read Quran together. 6- Read books together, particularly about the rights and roles of the spouses, and about the psychological differences between the genders. 7- Take some time off to travel and learn about each other.

From the narrated supplications for the bride and groom: Baaraka Allahu lak, wa baaraka 'alaik, wa jam'aa baynakumaa fee khair.

May the blessings of Allah be for you, and may the blessings of Allah be upon you, and may He unite you upon goodness.

GOOD HUSBAND

दुनिया का सबसे अच्छा सोहर (Husband) कोन है ????

1. जो अपनी बीवी के साथ नरमी खुश अखलाकी और हूसने सुलूक से पेश आए...।

2. जो अपनी बीवी के हुकूक अदा करने मे किसी किस्म की गफलत और कोताही न करे..।

3. जो अपनी बीवी का इस तरह होकर रहे की किसी अजनबी औरत पर निगाह भी न डाले..।

4. जो अपनी बीवी को अपने ऐश व आराम मे बराबर का शरीक समझे...।

5. जो अपनी बीवी पर कभी ज़ुल्म और किसी क़िस्म की बेज़ा ज्यादती न करे..।

6. जो अपनी बीवी की खूबियो पर नज़र रखे और मामूली गल्तियो को नज़र अंदाज़ करे..।

7. जो अपनी बीवी की मुसीबतों,बीमारियो और रंज गम मे साथ रहकर वफादारी का सुबूत दे..।

8. जो अपनी बीवी को पर्दे मे रख कर उसकी इज्ज़त व आबरू की हिफाज़त करे..।

9. जो अपनी बीवी और बाल बच्चो को कमा कमा कर हलाल रोज़ी खिलाये..।

10. जो अपनी बीवी के माइका वालों और और उसकी सहेलियो के साथ भी अच्छा सुलूक करे..।

11. जो अपनी बीवी के खर्चो मे कंजूसी न करे...।

12. जो अपनी बीवी की तारीफ सबके सामने करे और उसकी बुराई सबसे छुपाये.....

KURAAN KARIM

कुरआन करीम !

* अल्लाह की जबानी
* अल्लाह की किताब

* एक हिकमत व हिदायत वाला कलाम.....
* हकीकत व सच्चाइ को साफ साफ तौर पर बताने वाली किताब

* सच व झुट में फर्क बताने वाली किताब

* शुरू से आखीर तक रोजे अव्वल से रोजे हश्र (कयामत) तक तमाम दुनीयाँ वालों के लिये एक कानुन-एक दस्तुर.........

* हर किस्मत कि बरकतों का सबब......

* रहमत व बरकत और शिफा का असर...

* उल्झनों और मुश्किलात का हल.....

* सिर्फ और सिर्फ कुरआन करिम...॥

* इस्को हमने नमाजे तरावीह में सूना...

* हर रोज लाखो करोडों ने पढा.....

* मगर क्या हमने कभी इसे समझा....

* क्या हमने इसे समझ कर पढा.....

क्या हमने समझ ने कि कोशिश कि

हमने इसे पढा और सुना तो फिर अमल किया ?

सोचीये, अब भी वक्त है !
इसे पढिये, पढाइये
मगर अमल जरूर किजीये......

क्यों के अमल से जिंदगीयाँ बनती है.....
जन्नत भी जहन्नम भी
आप को क्या चाहिये ?
जन्नत या जहन्नम
आखिर फैसला आपका ।

अल्लाह अज वो जल, अमल करने की तौफीक दे..... आमीन

DUA

DUA : 

Rabbana aateyna fidduniya

hashnatou wa fill aakhirate

hashnatou wakiyn aajaban naar.

Aye humare RAB hume duniya aur

aakhirat ki behtarin bhalayio se

nawaz aur azabe-dozakh se hume

bacha..... 

((Ameen))

LAB PE AATI HE DUA

एक बहुत प्यारी सी दुआ

लब[1] पे आती है दुआ[2] बनके तमन्ना मेरी

ज़िन्दगी शमअ की सूरत हो ख़ुदाया मेरी

दूर दुनिया का मेरे दम अँधेरा हो जाये

हर जगह मेरे चमकने से उजाला हो जाये

हो मेरे दम से यूँ ही मेरे वतन की ज़ीनत[3]

जिस तरह फूल से होती है चमन की ज़ीनत

ज़िन्दगी हो मेरी परवाने की सूरत या रब

इल्म[4] की शमअ से हो मुझको मोहब्बत या रब

हो मेरा काम ग़रीबों की हिमायत[5] करना

दर्द-मंदों से ज़इफ़ों[6] से मोहब्बत करना

मेरे अल्लाह बुराई से बचाना मुझको

नेक जो राह हो उस राह पे चलाना मुझको

DEEN

Jinhe Khwab Dekhna Accha Lagta He
Un Ko Raat Choti Lagti He
Or
Jinhe Khwab Pura Karna Accha Lagta He
Un Ko Din Chota Lagta He

Choti Si Choti Neki Ko Kam Mat Samjho
Mummkin He Ke Wahi Allah Ki Raza Ka Sababb Ban Jaye

Sabar Me Koi Musibat Nahi
Or
Rone Me Koi Faida Nahi

Kisi Insaan Ki Khubi Pehchano or
Use Bayan Karo
Lekin Kisi Ki Khami Mil Jaye To
Yaha Tumhara Imtihan He Ke
Tum Kis Qisam Ke Insaan Ho

Allah Hame In Bato Par Amal Karne Ki Taufeeq Ata Farmaye

AAMIN SUMMA AAMIN

Bismillah hir-Rahman nir-Rahim

Hadith : Nazar (mannat) kisi aisee cheez ko aadmee ke nazdeek nahi karti jo Allah subhanahu ne uski taqdeer mein na likhi ho

Abdullah Ibn Umar Radi Allahu Anhuma se rivayat hai ki Rasoollallah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam ne Nazar (mannat) maan-ney se inkaar kiya aur farmaya ki nazar ( mannat) kisi cheez ko nahi rokti, Nazar sirf Bakhil (Kanjus) ke pass se maal (paisa) nikalti hai
Sahih Bukhari, Vol 8, 6608

Abu Hurairah Radi allahu anhu se rivayat hai ki Rasoollallah Sallallahu alaihi wasallam ne farmaya ( Allah Subahanhu farmata hai) Nazar (Mannat) insaan ko aisee koi cheez nahi deti jo mainey uski Taqdeer mein na likhi ho, bulki wo taqdeer hi deti hai jo mainey uskey liye Muqarrar kar di hai, main uskey (mannat ke) zariye Bakhil (kanjus) ka maal nikalwa leta hu
Sahih Bukhari, Vol 8, 6609

Abu Hurairah Radi allahu anhu se rivayat hai ki Rasoollallah Sallallahu alaihi wasallam ne mana farmaya hai Nazar se ( Yani Mannat se ) farmaya nazar (mannat) kisi aisee cheez ko aadmee ke nazdeek nahi karti jo Allah subhanahu ne uski taqdeer mein na likhi ho, lekin agar Nazar taqdeer ke muwafiq hoti hai to bakhil ke pass se wo maal nikalta hai jisko wo nikalna nahi chahta tha
Sahih Muslim, Vol 4, 4242, 4243

Anas and Abu Hurairah Radi allahu anhuma se rivayat hai ki Rasoollallah Sallallahu alaihi wasallam ne ek budhey ko dekha jo apney dono beton ke beech mein tek lagaye(sahara liye) chal raha tha Aap Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam ne farmaya isko kya hua hai uskey beton ne kaha ki isney nazar ( mannat) li hai (Paidal hajj par janey ki) to Aap Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam ne farmaya eh budhey Sawari par baith ja kyunki Allah subhanahu mohtaj nahi hai tera aur teri Nazar(mannat) ka
Sahih Muslim, Vol 4, 4247,4248

Tashreeh (Explanation) as per Sahih Bukhari:

Aksar log yu to Allah ki raah mein paisa kharch nahi kartey jab koi Museebat aa jati hai to us Waqt tarah tarah ki mannatein mantey hain , magar nazar aur mannat man ney se Taqdeer nahi palat sakti hota wohi hai jo Taqdeer mein hai . Aap Sallallahu Alalihi Wasallam ne aisee nazar se mana farmaya jismein banda ye sochey ki meri is nazar se bala tal jayegi ,lekin Agar koi ye sochkar Nazar maney ki jo Allah ne kismat mein likh diya hai wohi hoga to aisee nazar mana nahi jaisey ki Nawafil Roza, Nawafil Namaz etc. aur iska pura karna Wajib hai.

jaisy ki Imran Alaihi salam ki biwi ne nazar mani thi ki jo mere pet mein bachcha hai main usey duniya ke kaamo se aazad karkey teri nazar kar dungi
Al Quran : Jab Imran Alaihi salam ki biwi na kaha ki Ek RAB jo (bachcha) mere pet mein hai main usko teri nazar karti hu usey duniya ke kaamon se aazad rakhungi- Surah Aal-e-Imran (3) Verse 35

Maryam radi Allahu anha ko Allah subahnahu ne hukm diya ki “Agar tum kisi aadmi ko dekho to kahna ki mainey Allah ke liye rozey ki mannat mani hai”
Surah Maryam (19) , Verse 26

Aur ek dusri jagah Allah ne neik logon ki taarif mein ye farmaya hai ki Wo (neik log) Apni mannatein puri kartey hain aur us ( Qayamat ke) din se dartey hain jiski museebat har jagah phaili huyee hogi
Al Quran : Al-Insan (76), Verse 7

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English Translation:
Narrated Ibn 'Umar Radi Allahu Anhu : The Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam forbade vowing and said, "In fact, vowing does not prevent anything, but it makes a miser to spend his property."
Sahih Bukhari, Volume 8, Book 77, Number 605:
Narrated Abu Huraira Radi Allahu Anhu : The Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said (that Allah said), "Vowing does not bring to the son of Adam anything I have not already written in his fate, but vowing is imposed on him by way of fore ordainment. Through vowing I make a miser spend of his wealth."
Sahih Bukhari, Volume 8, Book 77, Number 606:

Abu Huraira reported Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) forbidding taking of vows, and said The vow does not bring anything near to the son of Adam which Allah has not ordained for him, but (at times) the vow coincides with Destiny, and this is how something is extracted from the miserly person, which that miser was not willing to give.
Sahih Muslim, Book 14, 4024,4025

Anas bin Malik and Abu Huraira Radi Allahu Anhuma reported: Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) found an old man walking between his two sons supported by them, whereupon Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) said: What is the matter with him? They said: He had taken the vow to walk (on foot to the Ka'ba). whereupon Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) said: Ride, old man, for Allah is not in need of you and your vow.

Sahih Muslim, Book 014, Number ,4029,4030

Tashreeh (Explanation) as per Sahih Bukhari:

Most of the people dont spend money in Allah's way but whenever any problems occur they start various kinds of vowing , but vowing does not prevent anything, What Allah has written in our destiny it must happen. if somebody vow by thinking that Whatever in our destiny it must happen then these kind of vow is allowed like Nawafil fast, Nawafil prayers etc and it must be fulfilled for example The wife of the Imran took vow for Allah that

Al Quran : (Remember) when the wife of 'Imran said: "O my Lord! I have vowed to You what (the child that) is in my womb to be dedicated for Your services
Surah Aal-e-Imran (3) Verse 35

and also on one verse Allah says to Maryam radi allahu anha

“And if you see any human being, say: Verily! I have vowed a fast unto the Most Gracious (Allah)”
Surah Maryam (19) , Verse 26

in Quran Allah says those are the pious believers who fulfill their vows
They (pious believers are those who) fulfil (their) vows, and they fear a Day whose evil will be wide-spreading.
Al Quran : Al-Insan (76), Verse 7

Our Dua'a for you

It is recommended that you congratulate the bride and bridegroom by reciting the du’a of Rasulullah [Sallallahu álayhi wa sallam]:

بَارَكَ اللّهُ لَكَ وَبَارَكَ عَلَيكَ وَجَمَعَ بَينَكُمَا فِى خَيرٍ

Barakallahu laka wa baaraka ‘alaika wa jama’a bainakuma fi khair

May Allah bless you and bless your counterpart and may Allah tie your union with virtue. [Sunan Abí Dáwud, Sunan Tirmidhi, Sunan Ibn Majah and Al-Hákim]

For all the Married couples out there , Our Dua'a for you ♥ Barakallahu laka wa baaraka ‘alaika wa jama’a bainakuma fi khair ♥