Tuesday, March 27, 2012

purity starts here




The husband - who works hard providing for his family leaves work, endures the stress and noise of the traffic, to reach home where he hopes to find comfort, tranquillity, and a peace of mind with his wife. Many husbands arrive home to a tidy house and a wife, who smiles when she sees him, asks about his day, offers to make him something to drink and allows him time to unwind. However some husbands reach home to a wife, who frowns as soon as she sees him, then complains about everything. Which wife would the husband be pleased with? “If a woman dies while her husband was pleased with her, she will enter paradise.” (Tirmidhi, Ibn Majah and Al-Hakim)




From the final sermon of Prophet Muhammad SAW:


O People, it is true that you have certain rights with regard to your women, but they also have rights over you. Remember that you have taken them as your wives only under a trust from God and with His permission. If they abide by your right then to them belongs the right to be fed and clothed in kindness. Do treat your women well and be kind to them for they are your partners and committed helpers. And it is your right that they do not make friends with any one of whom you do not approve, as well as never to be unchaste.a


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