marriage

A woman wants her husband to be strong in Deen, to be her best friend, someone she can share secrets and jokes with. She wants to feel special, loved and understood. Brothers, if you want to be a good husband please realise that a woman’s needs are different to a man’s. Your wife’s main need is ‘emotional’. Prophet SAWS said “The best of you are those who are best to their wives,” [Bukhari]. When your wife’s emotional needs are fulfilled, you will have a more fulfilling marriage!



A woman would be much better off if she could distinguish the difference between a man that flatters her and a man that compliments her. A man that spends money on her and a man that invests in her. A man that views her as property and a man that views her properly. A man that lusts after her and a man that loves her. A man that believes he is God's gift to women and a man that REMEMBERS a woman was God's gift to man. Know yourself worth. God does not make junk, God makes jewels.



Regardless of whether or not Islam has made the husband the head of the household, Muslims are not supposed to be dictators and tyrants. We are taught to treat our wives well. The prophet Muhammad sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said: “The most perfect Muslim in the matter of faith is one who has excellent behaviour and the best among you are those who behave best towards their wives” (Tirmidhi).