आई - वडिलांची साथ एक हृदयास्पद कथा ! आवर्जून वाचा ....

आई - वडिलांची साथ एक हृदयास्पद कथा ! आवर्जून वाचा ....

एका गावात एक बाई आपल्या छोट्या मुलाबरोबर एका छोट्या झोपडीत राहात होती. आपल्या मुलाला काही कमी पडू नयेम्हणून दिवसरात्र एक करून ती काम करत असे; पण त्या छोट्या मुलाला मात्र, आपली आई अजिबात आवडत नाही. तो तिचा तिरस्कार करत असतो; कारण तिला एक डोळा नसल्यामुळे ती भेसूर दिसत असते. आईला तो शाळेतही येऊ देत नसतो.

एकदा एका कार्यक्रमासाठी आईला शाळेत जावे लागते; पण तिला बघून कुठे तोंड लपवावे हे मुलाला कळत नाही . रागाचा एककटाक्ष टाकून तो तिथून पळून जातो. घरी आल्यावर तो आईला प्रचंड बोलतो.""कशाला आली होतीस शाळेत? आता माझे मित्र मला चिडवतील? मी उद्या शाळेत कसा जाऊ? तुला एक डोळा का नाही?मला तू अजिबात आवडत नाहीस.'' वगैरे वगैरे. आई काहीही बोलत नाही. आपण आईला खूप बोललो, याचे मुलालाही काही वाटत नाही. रागाने तो नुसता धुमसत असतो. आईशी काहीही न बोलता जेवतो आणि झोपतो. रात्री कधीतरी त्याला जाग येते; तर आपल्या मुलाची झोपमोड होऊ नये अशा दबक्‍या आवाजात त्याची आई रडत असते. पण त्याचेही त्याला काही वाटत नाही. एका डोळ्याच्या आपल्या आईचा त्याला अधिकच तिरस्कार वाटायला लागतो.

त्या क्षणी तो निर्णय घेतो, शिकून खूपमोठे व्हायचे आणि इथून बाहेर पडायचे.
त्याप्रमाणे तो खूप अभ्यास करतो. उच्च शिक्षणासाठी मोठ्या शहरात येतो.नामवंत विद्यापीठातून पदवी मिळवतो. मोठ्या कंपनीत मोठ्या हुद्‌द्‌यावर काम करू लागतो. एका सुंदर मुलीशी त्याचे लग्न होते. त्याला एक मुलगा, एक मुलगी होते. आता त्याचे कुटुंब पूर्ण होते; कारण हे सुंदर चित्र बिघडवणारी एका डोळ्याची त्याची आई तिथे नसते. तो तिला जवळजवळ विसरून गेलेला असतो. अतिशय सुखात असतो.

एक दिवस त्याच्या घराचे दार वाजते. दारात एका माणसाबरोबर त्याची तीच एकाडोळ्याची आई उभी असते. तिला बघून त्याची मुलगी घाबरून आत पळून जाते. तोआधी चक्रावतो आणि मग स्वतःला सावरत तिला म्हणतो, ""कोण आहेस तू? इथे का आलीस? बघ माझी मुलगी तुला घाबरली.''
""मी बहुतेक चुकीच्या पत्त्यावर आले,'' असे काहीसे पुटपुटत आई निघून जाते. तिने आपल्याला ओळखले नाही, अशा समाधानात (?) मुलगा दार लावून घेतो.
काही दिवसांनी, माजी विद्यार्थी संमेलनासाठी त्याला त्याच्या शाळेतून पत्र येते. परत त्या गावात जाऊ नये असे वाटत असतानाही तो संमेलनाला जाण्याचा निर्णय घेतो. ऑफिसच्या कामासाठी जातोय, असे बायकोला खोटेच सांगतो.
संमेलन पार पडते. कुठल्यातरी अनामिक ओढीने त्याची पावले त्याच्याही नकळत झोपडीकडे वळतात. दाराला कुलूप असते. शेजारची बाई त्याला ओळखते आणि एक पत्र देते. ते पत्र त्याच्या आईचे असते.
तो वाचू लागतो,

""... मी खूप आयुष्य जगले. तुझ्याकडे आता मी परत कधीही येणार नाही; पण तू कधीतरी येऊन मला भेटावेस अशी माझी खूप इच्छा आहे. शाळेच्या संमेलनाला तू येणार हे कळले होते; पण तिथे येऊन तुला भेटायचे नाही असे मी नक्की ठरवले. कारण मला माहिती आहे, एका डोळ्याची ही तुझी आई तुला आवडत नाही. मला एकच डोळा का, असेही तू मला एकदा विचारले होतेस. तेव्हा तू खूपच लहान होतास म्हणून मी काही उत्तर दिले नाही; पण आज सांगते. बाळा, तू लहान असताना एक अपघात झाला. त्या अपघातात तू तुझा एक डोळा गमावलास. एका डोळ्याने तू संपूर्ण आयुष्य कसे जगणार या विचाराने मी हैराण झाले आणि माझा एक डोळा तुला दिला. मला तुझा खूप अभिमान आहे. तू मला जे बोललास किंवा माझ्याशी जसा वागलास त्यासाठी मी तुझ्यावर अजिबात रागावलेले नाही."तुझे माझ्यावर खूप प्रेम आहे,' असाच विचार मी करते. कधी काळी माझ्या भोवतीभोवती खेळणारा तू मला नेहमी आठवतोस...''

पत्र वाचून मुलगा ढसढसा रडू लागला.. जी व्यक्ती केवळ त्याच्यासाठी जगली, स्वतःचा सर्वात महत्त्वाचा अवयव जिनं त्याला सहजपणे देऊन टाकला, तिच्याशी आपण किती निर्दयपणे वागलो. त्याला प्रचंड पश्‍चात्ताप झाला, तो आईला मोठमोठ्याने हाका मारू लागला; पण आता त्याचा काय उपयोग होता??

मित्रानो आई-वडिलांसाठी कोणतीही गोष्ट सोडा.
पण..
कोणत्याही गोष्टीसाठी आई-वडिलांना सोडू नका;
कारण जीवनात
एक वेळ कोणतीही गोष्ट आपली साथ सोडेल;
... पण

आई -वडिलांची साथ ही नेहमीच तुमच्या बरोबर आयुष्यभर असेल !

♦♦♦ Stories ♦♦♦

TRUE STORY

EVERY COUPLES/FAMILY/ SINGLES/MARRIED .....
MUST READ THIS...

A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were
a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy
was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine
bottle open. He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the
bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the
kitchen totally forgot the matter.


The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by
its color and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine
meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the
mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was
stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.


When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead
child, he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.


QUESTIONS :

1. What were the five words ?
2. What is the implication of this story?


ANSWER :

The husband just said"I am with you Darling"

The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior.
The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no
point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken
time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened.


No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she
needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband.
That is what he gave her.


If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there
would be much fewer problems in the world."A journey of a thousand
miles beginswith a single step.


"Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness,
and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as
you think.


MORAL OF THE STORY
This story is really worth reading. ..... Sometimes we spend time in
asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a
relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we
miss out some warmth in human relationship.

Sadaqa Al-Fitr And Almsgiving - Zakat

Sadaqa Al-Fitr (also known as Zakatul-Fitr) is a small amount of food to be given in charity at the end of Ramadan, before the holiday (Eid) prayers. This amount is separate from the annual payment of Zakat, which is one of the pillars of Islam. Unlike Zakat, which is calculated annually as a percentage of extra wealth, the Sadaqa Al-Fitr is to be paid equally by every Muslim man, woman and child at the end of Ramadan.



Amount of Sadaqa Al-Fitr
According to the Prophet Muhammad, each person should give away in charity an amount equivalent to one sa'a of grain. A sa'a is an ancient measure of volume, and various scholars have struggled to interpret this amount in modern measurements. The most common understanding is that one sa'a is equivalent to 2.5 kilograms (5 pounds) of wheat. Each individual Muslim is to give away this amount -- man or woman, adult or child, sick or healthy, old or young. The senior member of the household is responsible for paying the amount on behalf of the family. So a family of four individuals (2 adults + 2 children of any age) should purchase and give away 10 kilograms or 20 pounds of food.

It is recommended that the Sadaqa Al-Fitr be given as an amount of non-perishable staple food, not cash. The purpose of this charitable donation is to ensure that all members of the community have food to eat after Ramadan and during the Eid holiday. The recommended foods may vary according to local diet, but traditionally include:

Flour/Wheat
Rice
Barley
Corn
Dates
Raisins
Some scholars advise that donations of cash are permissible, if one is living in an area where food is readily available for purchase. However, most scholars agree that giving food products is preferable.

When to Pay Sadaqa Al-Fitr
Sadaqa Al-Fitr is a charitable donation linked directly to the month of Ramadan. One must make the donations in the days or hours just prior to the Eid Al Fitr holiday prayer. This prayer occurs early on the first morning of Shawwal, the month following Ramadan.

Who Benefits From Sadaqa Al-Fitr
Sadaqa Al-Fitr is intended for members of the Muslim community who do not have enough to feed themselves and their family members. It is traditionally given directly to individuals in need. In some places, one may take the donation directly to a known needy family. In other places, the local mosque may collect all of the food donations for distribution to appropriate community members. It is recommended that the food be donated within one's local community. However, some Islamic Charitable organization accept cash donations which they use to purchase food for distribution in famine or disaster-affected regions.




Zakat

Giving to charity is one of the five "pillars" of Islam. Muslims who have wealth remaining over the year, after paying for their own basic needs, must pay a certain percentage to help others. This almsgiving is called Zakat, from an Arabic word which means both "to purify" and "to grow." Muslim believe that giving to others purifies their own wealth, increases its value, and causes one to recognize that everything we have is a trust from God. Paying Zakat is required of every adult Muslim man or woman who possesses wealth of a certain minimum amount .

Zakat vs. Sadaqah:


In addition to the required alms, Muslims are encouraged to give in charity at all times according to their means. Additional, voluntary charity is called sadaqah, from an Arabic word meaning "truth" and "honesty." Sadaqah may be given at any time and in any amount.
How Much to Pay in Zakat:

Zakat is only required of those who have wealth beyond a certain amount to meet their basic needs (called nisab in Arabic). The amount of money paid in Zakat depends on the amount and type of wealth one possesses, but is usually considered to be a minimum of 2.5% of a person's "extra" wealth. The specific calculations of Zakat are rather detailed and dependent on individual circumstances, so zakat calculators have been developed to assist with the process.

Empowering Others

Your Good Deeds Make Their Way Back To You
Just for today find someone to encourage and inspire toreach their full potential. What you put out in the worldwill inevitably make its way back to you. I'm the first toadmit that when we are experiencing particularly hard timesthis appears to be the farthest thing from the truth.
However, there are any number of reasons this is true, thesimplest of which can be explained in that people as ageneral rule like to associate with, gravitate towards, andyes, when they're in a position to do so make the choice towork with, and hire those people who have an upbeat andpositive attitude -- and who look for the good in situations.

As you move through your day today keep the following sayingin mind, "life's like a boomerang, the more good you throwout, the more you receive in return."

To prove the truth in the ideas shared above, carry a littlejournal around, keep track of how many times your "gooddeeds" make their way back to you in the course of a month or two.
Don't go into this little exercise looking to prove itwrong, or more than likely that's precisely what you'll endup doing.

Remember, more often than not we get exactly what we focuson, whether that's a good thing or not depends at least tosome degree on what you and I go looking for and take noticeof in life.
Get the Cooperation of Others…Empowering people is the key to building a high-performance team. Once you empower people by learning how to motivate and inspire them, they will want to work with you to help you achieve your goals in everything you do.

Your ability to enlist the knowledge, energy and resources of others enables you to become a multiplication sign, to leverage yourself so that you accomplish far more than the average person and in a far shorter period of time.

Determine the Key People to Empower…There are three types of people that you want to and need to empower on a regular basis. They are, first of all, the people closest to you: your family, your friends, your spouse and your children.

Second are your work relationships: your staff, your coworkers, your peers, your colleagues and even your boss.

Third are all the other people that you interact with in your day-to-day life: your customers, your suppliers, your banker, the people with whom you deal in stores, restaurants, airplanes, hotels and everywhere else.

In each case, your ability to get people to help you is what will make you a more powerful and effective person.

Always Be Positive…Empower means “putting power into,” and it can also mean “bringing energy and enthusiasm out of.”

So the first step in empowering people is to refrain from doing anything that disempowers them or reduces their energy and enthusiasm for what they are doing.

There are things you can do every single day to empower people and make them feel good about themselves.

Satisfy the Deepest Needs…The deepest need that each person has is for self-esteem, a sense of being important, valuable and worthwhile.

Everything that you do in your interactions with others affects their self-esteem in some way. You already have an excellent frame of reference to determine the things that you can do to boost the self-esteem and therefore the sense of personal power of those around you. Give them what you’d like for yourself.

Continually Express Appreciation…Perhaps the simplest way to make another person feel good about himself or herself is your continuous expressions of appreciation for everything that person does for you, large or small. Say “thank you” on every occasion.

Thank your spouse for everything that he or she does for you. Thank your children for their cooperation and support in everything that they do around the house. Thank your friends for the smallest acts of kindnesses. The more you thank other people for doing things for you, the more things those other people will want to do.

Action Exercises:
Here are two things you can do immediately to put these ideas into action.
First, continually look for ways to make people feel more valuable and important. Say things to others that you would like others to say to you.
Second, express appreciation for everything anyone does for you, large or small. Say the words, “thank you” on every occasion.

"BE A MAN.. RESPECT WOMEN"

When I was Born;
A Woman was there to Hold Me...
-My Mother ♥
I Grew as A Child...
A Woman was There to Care for Me..
To Play With Me..
-My Sister ♥
I went to School...
A Woman was there to Help Me Learn...
-My Teacher ♥
I became Depress.. Whenever I Lost...
A Woman was there to Offer a Shoulder...
-My Wife ♥
I became Tough...
A Woman was there to Melt Me...
-My Daughter ♥
I am Dying..
A Woman Is there to Absorb Me in...
-My Motherland ♥
"BE A MAN.. RESPECT WOMEN"
If you are a Man.. then Value Every Woman..!!
And If U are a Woman, Be Proud to be the One.. —

DOST

Hazrat Ali(razi Allah ho ta'ala unho) ne farmaya: Duniya ussey yateem samajhti hai jis k maan baap na houn laikin main us ko yateem samajhta houn jis k achey doast na houn.......

मुश्किल राहों में भी आसां सफ़र लगता है,

ये मेरी माँ की दुआओ का असर लगता है.

~How to win your wife's love?

♥ Allah (SWT) said 'live with your wives in kindness.' It means in happy times and in sad times treat her with goodness and fairness.

♥ Increase the drops of patience, especially when she is pregnant or when she is on her monthly period.

♥ Respect the intimate relationship and its boundaries. Prophet Muhammad (SAWS) said she is like a fragile vessel and needs to be treated tenderly. Sometime she may not be feeling well; you must respect and appreciate that feeling. At the time of intimacy be caring and respectful.

♥ Don't leave the house as soon as trouble brews. Small problems/ challenges can become a big problem. If there is small thing she doesn’t like and you continue doing it anyway, it will create a wall between you. Don’t ignore problems.

♥ Share your problems, your happiness, and your sadness with her.

How to be a highly effective Muslim wife:

Stay Healthy and Get Outside!
Listen and Be Supportive
Be Creative – Change is Good!
Engage in Good Conversation – Learn New Things
Be Alive and Excited about Life
Have One Good Girl Friend (Or Mom) – Share your Problems with Grace
Dress Up and Smell Good – Take Care of Your Outward and Inward Appearance
Be Affectionate – Don’t Hold Back Your Love
Go the Extra Mile – He’ll Notice (Hopefully)
Say “Thank You - JazaakAllahu khayran” – Be Grateful for Small and Big Things

ALHAMDULILLAH

Don't be sad
If you are stricken by poverty... others are chained in debt!
if you don't have shoes... others have no feet!
if you feel pain now... others have been aching for years!
if a family member dies... others have lost their entire families!
if you have sinned... then repent!
if you have commited a mistake... then correct it!
The doors of repentance are ever open! The fountain of Forgiveness is ever rich! ALLAH is Al Ghaffar (The Oft-Forgiving
So Don't be sad!
let all bygones be bygones
What is predestined for you, you shall see it!
being sad will not change anything!
Sadness spolis your life,
destroys your happiness,
and turns it into wretchedness!
Supplication is your shield!
Prayer is your beacon!
Prostration is your means!
Don't be sad
ALLAH will never give you something you cannot handle!
so Trust in ALLAH, and say ALHAMDULILLAH for everything :)

Hadith

Narrated by Anas who reported that The Prophet (Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said, "he who desires his earnings to increase and his life to be long, should treat his relations well" (Reported by Bukhari and Muslim)

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Hadith

The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said : "Allah (mighty and sublime be He) says : My faithful servant's reward from Me, if I have taken to Me his best friend from amongst the inhabitants of the world and he has then borne it patiently for My sake, shall be nothing less than Paradise."

[Hadith Qudsi 29]

Hadith

“Be sure We shall test you with something of fear and hunger, some loss in goods, lives and the fruits (of your toil), but give glad tidings to those who patiently persevere”

[Qur’an 2:155]

Hadith

If you don't thank Allah for every smile, then you have no right to complain about every tear.

EMPTY POCKETS AND HUNGRY STOMACHS -- Teaches a Million things in Life!

MAKES ME THINK!!!

today in our Families from the kid to grandparents everyone wants food of their choice HOT, TASTY,MOUTHWATE RING DISHES

Then too they grumble that the food could have been served better

These hungry bellies search food from garbage and chew leaves or die Hungry

The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: "Feed the hungry, visit the sick and set free the captives." -Sahih Al-Bukhari, Volume 7, Hadith 552

"(The righteous are those) who feed the poor, the orphan and the captive for the love ofALLAH , saying: We feed you for the sake of Allah Alone; we seek from you neither reward nor thanks.'" -The Holy Quran, 76:8-9.[In Sha Allaah Please Tag ur beloved once

•٠•●♥ Husband & Wife •٠•●♥

♥ ~ ♥ He said to his wife:"Prove that u love me ... Scream it to the world!"
She approached to her beloved husband, and said in his ear
"I love you ..."
He turned to her and said sadly :
"Why you did say in my ear i told u too say this to whole world?
"She said:"Because You are mY whole world"♥ ~ ♥

Do you know that “woman’s real home is her husband”

Allah says in Qur’an:
“And among His Signs is that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquility with them “.

“you may dwell in tranquility”: through this expression, Allah described the husband and his wife as a home for one another
and just like a cosy home, marriage is where the married Muslim couple finds security, tranquility, peace of mind and comfort ..♥

So dear Sisters choose well your home and let your choice be based on good manners and deen :)

मी आहेच असा मैत्री करणारा

•♥• मी आहेच असा मैत्री करणारा •♥•
•♥• मैत्रिसाठी वाट्टेल ते करणारा •♥•
•♥• प्रत्येक मित्राचा विश्वास जपनारा •♥•
•♥• आयुष्यभर घट्ट मैत्रिची •♥•
•♥• साथ निभावनारा... •♥•

!~•♥•~!!~•♥•~!!~•♥•~!!~•♥•~!

•♥• मी आहेच असा सतत बोलनारा •♥•
•♥• मित्राना नको ते प्रश्न विचारनारा •♥•
•♥• प्रश्न विचारुन त्याना सतवनारा •♥•
•♥• उत्तरे संग म्हणुन •♥•
•♥• तगादा लावणारा... •♥•

!~•♥•~!!~•♥•~!!~•♥•~!!~•♥•~!

•♥• मी आहेच असा मस्त जगनारा •♥•
•♥• सदानाकदा स्वप्नामद्ये रमनारा •♥•
•♥• आपल्यातच आपलपन जपनारा •♥•
•♥• पण इतरांच्या आनंदासाठी •♥•
•♥• स्वतालाही विसरनारा... •♥•

!~•♥•~!!~•♥•~!!~•♥•~!!~•♥•~!

•♥ मी आहेच असा मनासारख जगनारा •♥•
•♥• यशाचे शिखर चदताना हाथ देणारा •♥•
•♥• अपयशाचे घाव सोसताना सांत्वन करणारा •♥•
•♥• सुखाच्या रस्त्यावरून जाताना •♥•
•♥• आयुष्य सजवनारा... •♥•

mi aahech maitri karanara...

marathi kavita

"Make things easy!"

Rasul Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said: “Make things easy! And do not make them complicated! Be cheerful! And do not be repulsive.”

[Bukhari]

... मोठे नाही व्हायचे मला लहानपण दे देवा

आईची अंगाई, काउ चिऊ चा घास हवा
मोठे नाही व्हायचे मला लहानपण दे देवा

casual/ sick लीव्ह नको मला, उन्हाळ्याची सुट्टी हवी
performance presentation नको मला तोंडी परीक्षा हवी
chinese / thai नको मला मऊ भात हवा
... मोठे नाही व्हायचे मला लहानपण दे देवा

मोठा flat नको मला रेतीत किल्ला बांधायचा आहे
मोटर गाड़ी नको मला तीन चाकी सायकल हवी आहे
कोट टाय नको मला अर्धी विजार हाफ शर्ट हवा
मोठे नाही व्हायचे मला लहानपण दे देवा

club, pub नाही मला बागेत जायचे आहे
बग्गीजम्पिंग नाही मला घसरगुंडीवर खेलायचे आहे
pepsi / sprite नको मला बर्फाचा गोला हवा
मोठे नाही व्हायचे मला लहानपण दे देवा

रोज संध्याकाळी मी शुभंकरोती म्हानिन
आई बाबांना नमस्कार करून पाढे सुद्धा लिहिन
शहन्या मुला सारखे मोठ्यंचे ऐकिन
तुझ्या कडून मला फक्त एक आशीर्वाद हवा
मोठे नाही व्हायचे मला लहानपण दे देवा.....!!!

marriage

A woman wants her husband to be strong in Deen, to be her best friend, someone she can share secrets and jokes with. She wants to feel special, loved and understood. Brothers, if you want to be a good husband please realise that a woman’s needs are different to a man’s. Your wife’s main need is ‘emotional’. Prophet SAWS said “The best of you are those who are best to their wives,” [Bukhari]. When your wife’s emotional needs are fulfilled, you will have a more fulfilling marriage!



A woman would be much better off if she could distinguish the difference between a man that flatters her and a man that compliments her. A man that spends money on her and a man that invests in her. A man that views her as property and a man that views her properly. A man that lusts after her and a man that loves her. A man that believes he is God's gift to women and a man that REMEMBERS a woman was God's gift to man. Know yourself worth. God does not make junk, God makes jewels.



Regardless of whether or not Islam has made the husband the head of the household, Muslims are not supposed to be dictators and tyrants. We are taught to treat our wives well. The prophet Muhammad sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said: “The most perfect Muslim in the matter of faith is one who has excellent behaviour and the best among you are those who behave best towards their wives” (Tirmidhi).

हिम्मत असेल तरच वाचा...!!!

एक माणूस मुंबई हून पुण्याला गाडी घेऊन निघाला होता.
त्याने विचार केला कि आपण जुन्या रस्त्याने जरा निसर्ग बघत जावूया. तो ज्यावेळी डोंगरावर पोहोचला त्यावेळी त्याची गाडी बंद पडली.
तो आता अश्या ठिकाणी होता जिथून त्याला काहीही जवळ न्हवतं.
थोड्याच वेळात अंधार पडला आणि पाऊस सुद्धा चालू झाला.
रात्र पुढे सरकत होती पण त्या रस्त्याने कोणी सुद्धा जात न्हवतं.
... ... अचानक एक गाडी त्याच्याकडे येताना त्याला दिसली.
त्यांनी काही विचार न करता गाडीत पाठीमागच्या सीटवर बसला आणि धन्यवाद करण्यासाठी तो पुढे सरकला.
आणि पाहतो तर काय?
समोर कोणीच नाही..पण गाडी मात्र चालत होती.
गाडी सरळ चालायची आणि वळणावर ज्यावेळी असे वाटायचे कि आता गाडी धडकतेय त्या वेळी अचानक एक हात खिडकीतून समोरून यायचा आणि गाडी वळवायचा.
तो खूप घाबरला.
त्याच्या अंगाचा थरकाप उडाला. देवाकडे सतत प्रार्थना करू लागला.
अचानक एका वळणावर त्याला एक उजेड दिसला.
गाडी हळू झालेली पाहून पटकन गाडीतून उतरला आणि सरळ त्या उजेडाकडे धावत सुटला.
तो एक छोटा धाबा होता.
धाब्यावर जावून पाणी प्याला आणि तो सर्व लोकांना त्या खतरनाक अनुभवाबद्दल सांगू लागला.
धाब्यावर गाढ शांतता पसरली. आणि इतक्यात संता आणि बंता तेथे आले.
संता त्या माणसाकडे बोट दाखवून बंताला म्हणाला
' हाच बघ तो वेडा जो आपल्या गाडीत बसला होता ज्यावेळी आपण ती ढकलत होतो'

Beautiful story: MUST READ !!!

Close the door of evil desires by closing your eyes.

A young man came to a shaykh and said, “I am a young man with strong desires. I cannot help looking at people when I am in the bazaar(market). What do I do?” The shaykh handed him a cup of milk that was full to the brim, and told him to deliver it to an address that would take the young man directly through the bazaar (market). He then instructed the young man that the milk should not spill, and the man said that it would not. The shaykh then summoned one of his students and told him to accompany the man through the bazaar to the destination, and to severely beat him if any milk were to spill.

This man successfully took the milk to the destination and returned to give the good news to the shaykh. The shaykh asked, “Tell me, how many sights and faces did you see in the bazaar?” The man replied incredulously, “Sheik, I didn’t even realize what was going on around me. I was only fearful of the beating and disgrace that I would have to endure in public if a drop of milk were to spill.”


The shaykh smiled and said, “It is the same with a believer. The believer fears that Allah may disgrace him in front of the entire creation on the Day of Judgment if his faith were to spill over from his heart.” Such people save themselves from sin because they constantly remain focused on the Day of Judgment !

Why Have You Done This With me?

A Sailor Was Stuck In An Island. Where He Was the Only Survivor.
He Made A Hut 4 this Shelter.Day and Night, He Was Prayin and Waiting 4 some 1 To Rescue Him But No1 came.He Stored Food In the Hut 4 his Survival, But 1 day,The Hut Burned 2 ashes and Nothing Was Left Of It.

He Was So Angry,

He Said,"ALLAH,

Why Have You Done This With me?!"The Next Morning,Rescuer s Came. He Askd"How Did You Know that I Was Here?"

They Replied,"We Saw A Smoke Signal!"

Trust ALLAH When Misfortune Happens,

His Plans are Always Greater Than Ours

{main to Yunhi be Fikr ho ke Jiye ja Raha tha}----

Zindagi main do pal koi mere paas nahi baitha,
Aaj sab mere paas baithe ja rahe hai,
Koi dua ka tohfa na mila aaj tak mujhe,
Aur aaj sab mere magfirat ki dua diye ja rahe hai,
Taras gaye ham kisi k hath se ek kapde ko,
Aur aaj naye naye kapde pehnaye ja rahe hai,
Do qadam sath chalne ko na tayyar tha koi,
Aur aaj sab qafila banker le ja rahe hai,
Aaj pata chala k mout itni haseen hoti hai,
main to yunhi be fikr k jiye ja raha tha.

Jayega jab Jahan se kuch bhi na Paas hoga,
Do gaz kafan ka tukda tera Libas hoga.
Kabhi ham aise the Jaise Aaj tum ho Aur,
Kal tum aise ho jaoge jaise aaj ham Hain.

Aye Allah Ham sab ko Aakhirat ki Tayyari karne ki Toufeeq Ata Farma Aameen.

riwayat

Hazrat Abu Hurairah (RaziALLHU Anhu) se riwayat hai ki RasulALLAH (Sal'lal'lahu Alaihe Wasalllam) ne irshaad farmaya :
Kaun hai jo mujhse ye baaten seekhe, Phir un par amal kare ya un logo ko sikhaye jo un par amal kare ?

Hazrat Abu Hurairah (RaziALLHU Anhu) farmate hain ki, Maine Arz Kiya :"Ya RasulALLAH ! Main Tayyar hoon.
Aap (Sal'lal'lahu Alaihe Wasalllam) ne (Mohabbat ki wajah se) mera haath apne mubarak haath main le liya aur gin kar ye paanch (5) baaten irshaad farmayin,

(1) HARAAM se bacho ! tum sabse bade ibadat guzaar ban jaoge.
(2) ALLAH TA ALA ne jo kuch tumhe diya hai us par raazi raho tum sabse bade ghani ban jaoge.
(3) Apne padosi k saath acha sulook karo tum momin ban jaoge.
(4) Jo apne liye pasand karte ho wahi dusro k liye bhi pasand karo, Tum (kaamil) Musalmaan ban jaoge.
(5) Zyada hansa na karo, Kyunki Zyada hansna dil ko murda kar deta hai. [Tirmizi :2305]
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Men, do you have protective jealousy over your wives and women folk?

In Islam we have a concept of Gheerah. Gheerah is an Arabic word which means protectiveness or jealousy. It is a good type of jealousy, like when a man feels jealous or protective over his wife or sisters and other-womenfolk and doesn't like other men to look at them. It is a natural inbuilt feeling Allah has given men and women. The Prophet (SAW) had the most Gheerah for his wives and all of the companions were known for their Gheerah. All Muslim men should have a collective sense of protectiveness for Muslim women as Allah says in the Qur'an: "The Men are the protectors and maintainers of women…" (Surah An-Nisaa, Ayah 34). Men who do not care about how their women behave and appear in front of other men and don't enforce hijaab upon their wives or women-folk are called Dayyooth. Being a Dayyooth is a major sin and a detailed discription of this evil characteristic can be found in adh-Dhahabee's book of Major Sins (Kitaab ul-Kabaa'ir).

Do you know that, there are 7 Sunnah to drink a glass of Water ??

1) Drink water with Right Hand.
2) Drink water by sitting.
3) cover your head while drinking
4) Start Drinking water with Saying “Bismillah”.
5) See the water before Drinking.
6) Drinking water in 3 steps.
7) After finishing saying “Alhamdullilah

NEKI

Koi Gunnah Lazzat ka laye mat karna Q K
Lazzat khatam ho jaegi aur Gunnah baqi rahee ga,
Aur
KOI NEKI takleef ki waja sa mat Choro Q k
takleef khatam ho gaeegi aur naki baqi rahegi...

Hazrat Ali (Razi ALLAH-o-Ta'ala Anho)

~The pious wife~

Marriage to her is one half of the deen,
The benefit Allah has put in her is yet to be seen.
She wears her hijab for her Lord, to please and obey,
She turns to Allah for salaah at least five times each day.

She prays in the night and makes sure to awake you,
And sprinkles you with water if sleep should overtake you.
She protects her chastity with firmness because she does not desire,
To displease Allah and end up in the tormenting fire.

She asks the people who know when matters need to be rectified,
She is not blinded by self righteousness and foolish pride.
She is humble and kind to her husband as Allah has commanded,
Never leaving him alone, isolated, nor stranded.

She opens her mouth only to say what is best,
Not questioning her husband when he makes a request.
She takes care of herself and never ceases to try,
To beautify herself so to please his eye.

She is a pleasure Allah has given to us in this life,
Be thankful to Allah alone for His blessing.

purity start here

I said: My sins are so many.
Allah said: "And who can forgive sins except Allah? " [3:135]

I said: Do not leave me.
Allah said: "So remember Me; I will remember you." [2:152]

I said: I'm facing a lot of difficulties in life.
Allah said: "And whoever fears Allah ? He will make for him a way out." [65:2]

I said: I have many dreams that I want to come true.
Allah said: "Call upon Me; I will respond to you." [40:60]

Subhan'Allah

Islam

Best brain foods for everyone

As you age, your memory goes for a toss. Eating right will help those grey cells in working condition and you in tip-top shape!
Can't find your keys ... again? Whether your momentary memory loss is linked to doing too many things at once or just a bad case of menopausal brain fog, you don't have to put up with it.
Studies suggest that natural chemicals in these foods, spices, and drinks combat cognitive decline.
Here is a list of some of the foods that help us keep our memory active and sharp.

- Asparagus

- Blueberries

- Cocoa

- Coffee

- Egg yolks

- Indian curry

- Red wine

- Rosemary

- Salmon

- Tomato sauce

- Walnuts

Foods that keep you hydrated

You're supposed to drink 8 glasses of water a day but how many of us actually do that? Here are some ways you can eat your water content and deliciously hydrate your body by eating certain foods
When you exercise or workout, you usually tend to lose a lot of water through sweat leading to your electrolyte levels going below normal. A wise move for replenishing your hydration levels is to drink electrolyte-rich fresh juices and eat hydration-promoting foods, such as fruits and vegetables. Also, drinking too much water can actually cause a critical loss of vitamins and minerals as they get whooshed out of the body with every trip to the bathroom. When you start 'eating' water, you don't need to count your glasses. You can replace at least one glass of water a day with one serving of raw fruits or vegetables and you will be able to stay hydrated significantly longer. Moreover, you'll get the added boost of fiber, antioxidants and other health-promoting phytonutrients. In fact, by sticking to a healthy diet, you'll end up 'eating' most of the water needed each day to stay hydrated.

Hydrating foods to eat every day

Our body is constantly replacing damaged cells, so it is imperative that we eat and drink to promote our cellular health. The best way to do this is to keep the body flooded with cell-protecting antioxidants and the building blocks of stronger cell membranes. Here are foods that contain high levels of nutrients and 'structured water'.

Mangoes
If your skin frequently feels parched, just eat a mango! Mangoes are bursting with vitamins and minerals, especially vitamin A. Vitamin A normalises the production and life cycle of skin cells. Mangoes also improve your skin if you suffer from acne. In skin with acne, there is an overproduction of cells in the stratum corneum, which is the outermost layer of the skin and is composed of biologically 'dead' cells. These excess dead cells combine with sebum (the skin's own natural oil) to form comedones - the pore plugs that are the defining element of acne. Taken as a dietary supplement, vitamin A helps to prevent overproduction of skin cells in the stratum corneum. You can add 3 to 4 slices of mango to every meal as a refreshing and hydrating naturally sweet treat.

Pomegranates

Pomegranates are a wonderfully hydrating source of antioxidants. They may be the world's most prolific source of polyphenols. The unique combination of elements in pomegranates increases the protective abilities of sunscreens, which can help prevent sun damage. Add pomegranates to your morning cereal or yogurt, fresh green or fruit salads for a refreshing snack or breakfast.

Avocado

The buttery-fleshed avocado may not seem like a hydrating food, but these healthy gems replenish potassium and contain healthy fats and fiber, which help your body hold on to water. As a bonus, the monosaturated fats in avocados contain oleic acid, which has been found to improve fat levels in the body and help control diabetes and cholesterol. Layer your sandwiches with avocado slices, toss diced avocado into your salads or simply scoop avocado out of its peel as a snack.

Cucumber

Not only are cucumbers delightfully crunchy and low in calories, they are composed mostly of water, which will keep you feeling hydrated longer. In addition, cucumbers are an excellent source of silica, a trace mineral that contributes to the strength of connective tissue. Do not peel the cucumber skin! It is a good source of vitamins A, C and folic acid. You can add diced cucumber to green and grain salads or fan sliced cucumber on the side of your plate as a refreshing side dish. You can also cut cucumber into batons for an afternoon snack.

Broccoli
Your mom was right when she said to eat your greens. Broccoli and other green foods, such as spinach, are a great source of alpha lipoic acid which is a potent fat- and water-soluble antioxidant and an anti-inflammatory. Toss raw broccoli into your salads or simply snack on this hardy vegetable all by itself.

आयुष्यात शेवटी आठवणीच राहतात

तुझ्या देहाकडे बघून नेत्रसुख
घेणारे बरेच असतील पण ,
" ओढणी सांभाळ "
सांगणारा कदाचित मी एकटाच
असेन !
तुला हसवणारे बरेच असतील पण ,
तुझ्यासाठीच तुझ्यावर
चिडणारा कदाचित मी एकटाच
असेन !
लगबगीत
चालताना तुझ्या स्पर्शाची वाट
पाहणारे बरेच असतील पण ,
" जपून चाल "
सांगणारा कदाचित मी एकटाच
असेन !
हसत -हसवत तुला ताली देणारे
बरेच असतील पण ,
तू रडताना,तुझा... हात हातात
घेवून धीर देणारा कदाचित
मी एकटाच असेन !
तुला कळाव म्हणू
तुझी काळजी घेणारे बरेच
असतील पण ,
तुझ्या नकळत
तुझी काळजी घेणारा मी एकटाच
असेन...आठवणी हसवतात... आठवणी रडवतात... काहीच न बोलता आठवणी निघून जातात... तरी आयुष्यात शेवटी आठवणीच राहतात... मित्रांनो हे पेज लाईक कराच...

marathi kavita

Lemon juice for good health!

Lemon juice has more benefits that you'd ever imagine. Lemons have five per cent of citric acid, which gives it its unique taste.

Rich in vitamin C, it also has vitamin B, calcium, phosphorus, magnesium, proteins and carbohydrates.

Here are some benefits.

- Suffer from indigestion? Mix a few drops of lemon juice with warm water and sip on it. This is useful for treating nausea, heartburn, diarrhoea, bloating and burping.

- Since lemon is a natural antiseptic, it is great to cure skin problems. It clears your skin and also acts as an anti-ageing agent by eliminating wrinkles and blackheads.

- Have a toothache? Apply fresh lemon juice where it hurts. If you have bleeding gums, applying lemon juice can curb the bleeding and stop bad breath.

- A sore throat can be cured by gargling with lemon juice and water regularly.

- Nimbu paani is high in potassium, which controls high blood pressure, dizziness, nausea and reduces stress. It also cures respiratory disorders like breathing problems and asthma.

What women want?

A woman wants her husband to be strong in Deen, to be her best friend, someone she can share secrets and jokes with. She wants to feel special, loved and understood.
Brothers, if you want to be a good husband please realise that a woman’s needs are different to a man’s. Your wife’s main need is ‘emotional’.
Prophet SAWS said “The best of you are those who are best to their wives,” [Bukhari].
When your wife’s emotional needs are fulfilled, you will have a more fulfilling marriage!

Benefits of papaya

Poets and authors have likened its scent to that of an ethereal, otherworldly experience. Sensual, earthy and almost wildly exotic in an olfactory sense, the humble papaya is one of earth's finest gifts to mankind. Here are a few reasons why you should include this fruit in your diet:

Low in calories, high on nutrition, it's an excellent choice for those on a diet.

The peel of the papaya helps in healing skin wounds and injuries.

The fruit has anti-inflammatory and anti-cancerous properties. People affected with osteoporosis, arthritis and oedema should consume it regularly.

The fruit is good for hair growth and is known to check the growth of dandruff.

Papaya is one of the most trusted detox solutions. If taken in moderation, the fruit can help get rid of
toxins from the body.

Those suffering from constipation and indigestion can rely on the papaya for relief.